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How do you start to heal as a community after an incident like Tuesday’s tragedy at Westlake Village High School?

Students lay flowers and light candles outside Westlake Village High School after 15-year-old Wesley Welling died after a car drove into a group of students outside the school
Caroline Feraday
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KCLU
Students lay flowers and light candles outside Westlake Village High School after 15-year-old Wesley Welling died after a car drove into a group of students outside the school

Experts advise that it could take weeks or months to process what’s happened.

The community is mourning 15-year-old WLHS student Wesley Welling, who was killed on Tuesday, outside the school.

"Given what the community of Westlake has already been through in the last 5 years in terms of significant losses, accidents and natural disasters, it would be normal and expected for some of that old grief to resurface as well," explained licensed marriage and family therapist and founder and President of Clearly Clinical, Elizabeth Irias, who is based in Thousand Oaks.

Irias told KCLU, everyone processes grief in different ways.

"Don't expect that you're doing to start by being in denial and then move into anger. That's for a different type of grief than what we are talking about here.

"It may take weeks if not months to really integrate and process what's happened," said Irias.

Caroline joined KCLU in October 2020. She won LA Press Club's Audio Journalist of the Year Award in 2022, 2023 and 2024.

Since joining the station she's also won 10 Golden Mike Awards, 6 Los Angeles Press Club Awards, 4 National Arts & Entertainment Journalism Awards and a Regional Edward R. Murrow Award for Excellence in Writing.

She started her broadcasting career in the UK, in both radio and television for BBC News, 95.8 Capital FM and Sky News and was awarded by Prince Philip for her services to radio and journalism in 2007.

She has lived in California for eleven years and is both an American and British citizen - and a very proud mom to her daughter, Elsie.